A.J. Mahari

 ajmahari.ca & ajmahari.com

Welcome to this central website of A.J. Mahari’s designed to help you faciliate navigating the information, services, and products, provided by Author, Life Coach, BPD and Mental Health Coach, A.J. Mahari.

A.J. Mahari is the author of 20 Ebooks and numerous online articles and blogs. She is also the author and narrator of 30 Audio Programs

A.J. also has 3 podcasts you can learn more about by clicking on the Podcast link above as well as over 40 videos that you can find in her 6 video playlists by clicking on the Video link above.

A.J. Mahari, also has an online radio show The Psyche Whisperer that you can listen to live – check the show’s Blog for up-coming shows. You can also listen to archive shows, download on the site or subscribe to via itunes. A.J. has been called a psyche whisperer by many of her clients and several of her closest friends and colleagues. This is a very ecclectic radio show that will feature shows on many different topics. What all of these different topics will have in common is their meaning in and to your psyche individually as a listener as well as the collective psyche that is a common denominator in the human experience of each and every one of us.

This central website of hers features links to all of her websites. She very much believes in the blessings and Grace that can be derived from a healthy, open, and vulnerable respect and reverence for the process that is the unfolding of life. The journey of life that is unfolding for each and every one of us one moment at a time.

A.J. Mahari has been working online now since 1995. She is also a speaker and is more than happy to do interviews for all types media, bloggers included.

A.J. Mahari believes that we are all right where we’ve chosen to be. Regardless of circumstance in life it is Mahari’s mantra that how we choose to think makes all the difference as to whether we empower ourselves or not. We can direct the evolution of our emotional and spiritual journeys by surrendering to that which we cannot control getting on and staying on the path of least resistance. Adherence to the practice of Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance simultaneously is at the core of accepting responsibility for what we absolutely can shift, re-shape, and change, one moment at a time, in the here and now.

 Unresolved Issues Eclipse All That the Present Moment Offers

According to A.J., “Much of what we experience is clouded by past experience, unless and until we are ready to release it. What is lost to this focus on the past and to all the unresolved issues of the past eclipses the richness of all that we can come to know and live from and through emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. Each one of us is challenged with new choices and new decisions each step of the way in our lives as our self-awareness increases. Self-awareness that is the stepping-stone to self-improvement that is the pathway to personal enlightenment. A personal enlightenment that will continue to show us the way to our own individual authenticity. Know that you are worthy and that you matter. If you feel that you aren’t worthy or that you don’t matter, if you aren’t sure who you are, if you don’t like yourself very much, trust that there are unresolved issues that are trapping you in old thought patterns that keep old and young feelings alive and active in the here-and-now. I hope you will join me on a journey of awakening to each and every present moment. I hope that you will find something in all that I write about and talk about helpful to you on your own personal journey.”

 

Control Of Self Versus Control of Others or Things Outside of Self

A.J.’s philosophy when it comes to control is this: “Control is essentially an illusion. There are thoughts, feelings, and actions, that each one of us, as individuals, have a responsibility to marshall in ways that do not impinge upon the rights or dignity of anyone else.

To think that we can control, emotionally, what we usually know, intellectually, darn well we have little to no control over, is to choose to be unhappy and take action in the pursuit of misery.

 Control of one’s self is the ultimate. Control of one’s self involves learning to build emotional competence and develop the psychosocial skills necessary to gain emotional and self mastery. Much of what one might think is self control is really surrender to a mindful, accepting, path of least resistance. Trying to control anything about anyone else is to deny yourself and that other person the dignity of being on the unfolding path of the journey that belongs exclusively to his or her soul in this life.”

 

The Journey That Life Is

 A.J. Mahari is a woman who has been on and remains on a incredible journey in her own life. She is a firm believer that it is important to trust and have faith that life is unfolding as it is meant to, whether one finds him or herself in a valley or climbing to a mountain’s peak of realization and achievement.

According to A.J.’s philosophy of life – “Life is a journey not a destination. It is an unfolding journey that finds more of itself through conscious awareness and a mindful radical acceptance. Life is a journey for each human being alive. Each one of us has to make the choice to engage that journey and to patiently trust its process. We cannot control every facet of this journey. We can not make it speed up or slow down. What we can choose to do is engage it as fully as we can and make the most conscious and aware choices that we can. Life is a sacred journey. Life, in the process of living it, is as much about learning and growing, changing, evolving, and maturing toward as much peace, happiness, and balance as we can find, hold, practice, and achieve as it is about anything else.”

Mahari invites you to, “Remember to be a human being and not a human doing. Remember to seek to know more about who you are what that means and why it all matters. Too many people lose too much of this sacred journey of life to what it is that they do or seek to do. There is a lot to be said for simply being – after all, perfect speed is just being there.”

This website will help you to find all of the websites, writing, products and services of A.J. Mahari.

 

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